Friday, September 25, 2020

Athmanirbhar

 




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A  strong message to all the Ladies : 

A few years ago, my friend had just crossed age 50.  Just about 8 days later she was struck with an ailment ... And she died swiftly.
In the group we received a condolence message  that  ..."Sad .. she is no more with us"...  RIP 🙏

Two months later I called her husband. A thought crossed my mind ..he must be devastated as he had a travelling job. Till her death she would oversee everything.. home.. education of their children... Taking care of the aged in-laws.. their sickness.. managing relatives..   everything,  everything, everything

She would express at times.." my house needs my time, .. my hubby cant even make coffee tea, my family needs me for everything, but no one cares or appreciates the efforts  i put in. I feel they all take me for granted ".

I called her husband to see if the family needed any support, as, i felt her  hubby must be feeling lost.. to suddenly have to handle  all the  responsibilities,  for evetything.. aging parents, Kids, his travelling job, loneliness at this age.. how must he be managing?

The cell phone rang for some time..no response... After an hour he returned the call.. He apologised that he could not answer my call..as he  had started playing tennis for an hour at his club and meeting friends etc. To ensure he had a good time.

 He even took a transfer to Pune. So as not to travel anymore.

"All well at home? " I asked,

He replied, he had appointed a cook .. he paid her a little more and she would buy the groceries and provisions. He had appointed full time caretakers for his aging parents.

 "Managing well...kids are fine. Life is returning to normalcy...he said.

I barely managed to say a couple of sentences and we hung up.
Tears welled up my eyes.
My friend remained in my thoughts... She had missed the school reunion for a minor ailment of her mother in law. She had miss her nieces wedding because she had to supervise the repair  work in her house.
She had missed so many  fun parties and movies because her children had exams she had to cook she had to take care of her husband's needs...
She had Always looked for some appreciation and some recognition.. which she never got.

Today I feel like telling her..
No one is indispensable.
And no one will be missed.. it is just the play of our mind.

Perhaps it is the consolation.. A symbol of our understanding if you would like to call it that... That's the problem of putting others first.
You have taught them that YOU COME SECOND

 Reality bites :
 After her death two more maids were hired and the house was in order

We only measure our respect and our value.. ain't that true?

Then do enjoy life.. Remove the frame of mind that I am indispensable and without me the house will suffer

 My message to all Ladies :
Most importantly make time for yourself .. the ME time.. the time for the self
️ Get in touch with your friends... Talk, laugh and enjoy
Live your passion, live your life

Once in a while do things that love to do ...

 Don't look for your happiness in others, you too deserve some happiness because if you are not happy you cannot make others happy

 Everyone needs you, and you too need your own care and love

 Women should come forward to help and guide other women who are unable to handle their personal stress and give them a hand to uplift their confidence

Let us HELP Ourselves and make this LIFE WORTHWHILE
 we all have only one life to live .



 

 

Age when kids should go to school some have to do the house work, oh well maybe their karma drove them to this, along the rocky bumps of life

 

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Thursday, September 24, 2020

Minimalism


 

 

Minimalism 2

If we were to shed the greys things would be Black & White

Do you see things so?

Do you just see food and S@X

What else is there but to survive and procreate?

Are even the animals better off then us?

 

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Minimalism

Just geometry, just that much and no more,

Tiny can be beautiful

Tiny can be lovely


Tuesday, September 15, 2020

Mother & Child


 

Have grown up hearing many a story about how Koel lays its eggs in Crows next and the crow shuns the koel if it realizes it is not its crow kid, well here we have a image you tell me what you see?  I see the crow bringing up the chic as its own.

 Wonder if a human would do it?

Would society let it do so?

 

Day 109, Post-lockdown, Sept 16th
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Saturday, September 12, 2020

Flying high


 

Come evening under cover of darkness there is always someone watching, the recent events in the media makes me think there is always some information floating and data collectors are working on the info,,,

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